From the Capital-Journal:
Through more than 30 years of marriage and husband Steve Buhler’s long career as a high school football coach, Shelly Buhler has been one of his biggest supporters.
Through more than 30 years of marriage and husband Steve Buhler’s long career as a high school football coach, Shelly Buhler has been one of his biggest supporters.
On Friday
night, though, Shelly will be cheering for the other guys, and Steve is just
fine with that.
Shelly
Buhler, a longtime Shawnee County Commissioner, is in her first year as
Hayden’s president and will be on the Wildcats’ side of the field when 1-1
Hayden hosts 2-0 Washburn Rural, coached by Steve.
“She’s a very
dedicated person, she’s a very loyal person,″ Steve Buhler said of Shelly.
“She’s already told me, ‘I hope you have a great year, just not this one week.’
”
“We’re both
going to be professional about this and we’re both going to be doing our jobs
to the best of our ability,″ Shelly said.
Hayden-Washburn
Rural has turned into one of the city’s top rivalries, but Steve Buhler said
the Buhlers have tried to approach this week as just another game.
“There’s not
much talk about it,″ Steve said. “Shelly doesn’t worry about what I’m doing
over here per se and she’s got enough going on that we really don’t talk much
business. And this sounds crazy, but we really don’t talk a lot of football.
“I think both
of us are going to give each other a little extra space this week, because
joking around or whatever with people and everything else, we don’t want that
to be part of the equation. We just want it to be about our kids vs. the Hayden
kids and the programs and we’ll be happy with a great ballgame.″
Football has
always been a big part of life in the Buhler household, with Steve and Shelly’s
sons, Mitch and Matt, starring for Steve at Rossville and playing at Washburn.
But Steve and
Shelly Buhler said their jobs are about much more than just athletics.
“In the
scheme of the education process and what she’s involved in and what I’m
involved in, the game is important, but at the same time there’s a lot bigger
issues involved with the schools and the kids and all those kinds of things,″
Steve said. “That’s why we’re involved in it. She loves Hayden as a school and
wants all their programs to do really well.″
“The fact of
the matter is we’re both supportive of education and both supportive of
students and student-athletes,″ Shelly said. “We both went to a catholic
college (Benedictine) and met there and both of us I think have lived our faith
and served our communities in a number of different ways. It just so happens
that we’re in these places at this point in time and he’s supportive of
Washburn Rural and I’m definitely supportive of Hayden and the great tradition
of Hayden.″
The Buhlers
are no strangers to needing to temporarily put family allegiances aside for
football.
Shelly’s
brother, Matt Westerhaus, is the athletic director at Junction City, which has
faced Centennial League rival Rural several times during Steve’s six seasons at
the school.
In fact, Rural
and Junction City faced off last Friday, with the Junior Blues rallying for a
34-24 victory, their first over the Blue Jays under Buhler.
While Friday
will be a big night for both Hayden and Washburn Rural, Shelly Buhler admits
that in some ways she’ll be happy to get the game finished and things returning
to normal.
“I will be probably glad
when it’s behind us,″ she said. “I think it makes it a little more intense
because Steve is coaching this particular sport, but we’ll wake up the next day
and we’ll both go back to doing our jobs and hopefully doing our jobs well.″
